The Hole In Our Gospel

(a study)


We were supposed to start our study today but the preacher had to go into the hospital unexpectedly today. 

Thank you for being patient and flexible. Stay tuned here and on my FB page for new start date and info. 

We would appreciate your prayers. 


The Hole In Our Gospel

“The thing about the truth that is most annoying is that it is *true*, making anything that contradicts it false. Christ is either God incarnate, risen from the dead, or he is not. There is no halfway position here…Christ is an all-or-nothing proposition, and one way or another, every one of us has already made a choice about Him. We have either committed our lives to Him wholeheartedly, or we have not…If Christ is Lord, then nothing He asked us to do is optional. His teachings become the operating system of our lives.”

-Richard Stearns, The Hole In Our Gospel

Matthew 26:31-46

Luke 6:49

A Lot Can Happen In A Year

In April 2014 I began a journey of studying and, literally, living like Jesus and his guys modeled for us. 

James 1:27 has become my mantra:  Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.

With this verse in mind, I began an experiment that I told myself I would do for one year.  I began experimenting with making changes in my home, family, and way of living. Each new thing I attempted to implement needed to have a “yes” answer to one, some, or all of the following questions:

  1. Does this love God?
  2. Does this love myself?
  3. Does this love others?
  4. Does this love the earth?

In approaching each new idea as an experiment,  I was able to be easy on myself when something didn’t work out well. When an idea didn’t work out well, I was also able to let it go and try something else. If it DID work, I was able to keep the idea as a permanent change. 

Some things that did not go so great were making my own laundry products, the no-poo shampoo method, purchasing strictly from local businesses, and bringing legions of people along with me on this crazy-beautiful journey. 

Some things that stuck are going paper free in the kitchen, using laundry products that create less waste, not getting my hair and nails done and putting that money towards adoption costs, spending less wastefully, purchasing gifts and eating out primarily at local businesses, and teaching a small group of people what I am learning along the way and watching them be dedicated and change themselves and the world around them one little step and change at a time. 

During this year I have come to be in love with the beauty of adoption and the tangible picture it gives the world of God adopting us. I have learned to ask for help. I have learned to be more caring to the earth and myself and others around me. I have learned more about authentic Christianity this year than I ever have in my whole life. My life is so full and rich. 

The greatest, hardest thing that has come out of this year is our decision to adopt. That is how I will end this year of experimentation and begin a new one. We are about midway through the adoption process and I am so excited to see what happens next! Who joins our family!

I began this experiment thinking I would do it for one year and then move on to the next “thing”. I have learned so much and long so much to continue this experiment, that has become a lifestyle, that I will never be able to complete all the things I now wish to do/be/try in one lifetime. 

I hope you begin your own experiment. I hope you make your own new journey. I hope you learn so much that you are not able to contain it. I hope you choose to go, be, and do!

You can see updates about our adoption and pitch in, if you want, here:

Anything worth doing does not come easily, and it shouldn’t.

Anything worth doing does not come easily, and it shouldn’t.

I believe we give up, or give in, far too quickly when something, that started out as fun or exciting or a good idea, becomes difficult or boring and/or the excitement of the newness wears off. Or…We begin receiving outside opposition. (There are always going to be people who do not understand our journey, and that is okay. It is not theirs to understand.)

If you have thought through your idea, and it is something that you truly believe in, something you are passionate about, something you just have to see through to the end or you’re going to bust! Do it! Stick it out. Complete the journey.

If there are no obstacles, we are unable to see the value of the thing. We can not appreciate our growth through the process. We will not have beautiful stories to tell.

These are the things that life and memories are made of. The tragedy. The triumph. The heartbreak. The joys! We will not have any of these wonderful things if we do not choose to complete the journey.

Choose. Go. Be. Do. Live. Create stories and memories and a life that leaves a legacy!

Anything worth doing does not come easily, and it shouldn’t.

Addressing The $#!+

So, here’s a thing….Yesterday, our family had a very major and craptastic event, which I can’t really talk about here.

A lot of times when things are hard we, the whole group of humans, just need to say, “Hey! Anyone who will pay attention! I’m hurting, here!” I had one of those moments and I posted, “The shit hath hitteth the fan.” And if the shit hadn’t hit the fan already, it certainly did then.

Some well-meaning iron sharpeners (Proverbs 27:17 proceeded to try and “sharpen” me.

If I had said poop or doo doo or crap or bull hockey or dookie or fieces, I still would have meant “shit”. Not a single person that read that post would be any the wiser. All would be right in the pretty, perfect, pretender church world. BUT. *Jesus* would know that I was a liar.

Now, I can’t find any scripture about going to hell for saying “shit”, BUT I *do* know that Revelation 21:8 says, But as for cowards and the unfaithful, and the polluted, and murderers, fornicators, and those who practise magic or worship idols, and all liars–the portion allotted to them shall be in the Lake which burns with fire and sulphur…”

You can judge me. You can criticize me. You can correct me. I would rather be in right standing with Jesus than anyone else ANY day.

The good thing about this situation is, I’m confident in who I am and who I am in HIM and what He has placed SO BIG in my heart that if I don’t do it….I’M GONNA BUST! Nobody else has to understand or approve of or answer for my journey. It is mine. I love it, and it is beautiful.

But you have heard of me, right?

a picture story

People always ask why I call myself The Worst Preacher’s Wife Ever. Here it is. In pictures…

I love my peeps,


and my puppy,


and combinations of things sexy and classy, but not trashy, and all things retro pin-up.

anniversary project 9

And tattoos!


I relate to this:


better than I relate to most Christian music.


I am a total Jesus girl and I strive to live like this:


and this:


I am socially awkward


and anxious


and honest



and brave


and courageous.


I am VERY trustworthy


because sometimes, there is just no other word that will do.


I am sarcastic,


have a warped sense of humor,


and I’m real about my messy life.


I don’t like stupid church stuff.


I love this,


but feel like we more often get this:


I like cigarettes and whiskey on occasion(s).


I don’t do boring.


Most of all…..











Super Hero Sighting

The preacher and I were in Aurora this afternoon. We turned onto this street just as a car jumped the median, flipped, and landed on its top in the other direction of traffic. Miraculously, no other vehicles added to the situation.

The preacher real quick like parked in the median and we ran to see if we could help. There was already a small group of men around the car working together to help the driver get out. A young lady was on the phone with 911 and a few other people were keeping an eye on traffic, giving sincerely helpful hints, and just standing at the ready in case something else needed to be done.

The preacher jumped right in and helped the group of men pull the driver from the car. The car was still running and smoke was coming from the exhaust. When the driver and men were clear, I crawled in and turned the car off just as smoke started coming out of the dash.

The absolute beauty of this situation was that, for one brief moment in the history of the world, a group of people with very visible differences in ethnicities, backgrounds, morals, classes, styles, and so on…They each put away their prejudices, their immediate judgements and criticisms and perceptions of totally random strangers. They put away all their differences, thoughts, feelings, and opinions of others for a brief moment and worked so quickly and efficiently together to save someone that probably not a single one of us knew.

It was BEAUTIFUL. It was good and right. It restored my faith in humanity just a teeny molecule. I wish there was more of that.

The Worst Preacher’s Wife Ever Presents: P.M.S Conference, May 2014



The 1st Ever, Ever, Worst Preacher’s Wife Ever’s P.M.S. Conference and Retreat is here! There’s only room for 12 and it will Never Ever cost less than this one time. You get to spend the weekend in the foothills of the Rocky Mountains with room, meals, and four sessions (plus a lot of extra surprises) for only $180!!! (Does not include travel)

Email me to save your spot:

(This is for Preacher’s Wives only.)

With Great Platform Comes Great Criticism ©

My husband is a cowboy preacher. He isn’t just a cowboy preacher. He IS a cowboy. He lives and breathes cowboy.

My man received this e-mail today:

“Every once in a while you are truly inspirational. The stories about
you sometimes get in the way. I love it when you are totally focused
on preaching God’s Word not the latest rodeo escapades. You have a
gift; stick to it……..Thank you.”

Number one:

Don’t. Mess. With. My. Man.

And the other number one is:

God did not choose ANYBODY to be criticizers. Even when the criticism is veiled as a kindness.

I have seen that a great platform comes with great criticism. We get these messages all the time. I do not understand. If you don’t like something…Don’t read. Don’t listen to it. Don’t look at it. Or by ALL MEANS….send tacky e-mails.